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Podcasts featuring friends + weird buildings and the 4 day work week

Amy Tector
Jul 11, 2021
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May I recommend

Listening to podcasts featuring friends talking about things?

I love a podcast. This is not a particularly avant-garde thought, but I feel a little defensive, because I’ve loved podcasts since 2007 when my friend Amy told me about a weird little NPR program called “This American Life.” We lived in Belgium at the time, and I would march myself into the centre of town to go to the shoe store, or greet our latest visitors arriving by train, all while listening to the soothing tones of Ira Glass as he investigated “loneliness” or “unexpected gifts.” Connecting so intimately to people with North American accent telling me happy and sad stories while I stumbled over uneven cobblestones and got sneered at by grumpy Belgians was incredibly comforting.

Intrigued? Listen to one of my favourite TAL segments, when Starlee Kine investigates Break Up Songs. Oh also, this whole episode, devoted to famous people who are secretly Canadian (catnip to my fellow Canucks - Americans paying attention to us? Yes please!)

Today I’m not recommending generic podcasts, though. Instead I am recommending a very specific type of pod that I have come to seek out during the pandemic: two or three friends talking about a subject, but also doing a lot of laughing and teasing. The sign that you are tuning in to the podcast for the hosts’ friendship, rather than the content, is when you get ever so slightly annoyed by the introduction of a guest who throws off the wonderful friendship dynamics.

Throughout these long strange 18 months, I have become increasingly reliant on the safe spaces that discussions amongst friends generate. Here are some of my favourites.

  1. Rex Factor - this is my original “friends talking about a subject” podcast, and might be my favourite podcast of all time. One day I will do a recommendation just about the Rex Factor. For now, just know that it’s two British guys rating each English monarch from Alfred the Great to Elizabeth II. (They’ve also done a series on Scottish monarchs, and are in the midst of doing the queen and prince consorts). Yes, the stories they tell about each monarch are interesting and funny, but what I love is the dynamic between the two guys. One is a more serious, researcher type, the other is a flakey goofball. The best part is that they both really get a kick out of each other. So heartwarming.

  2. Forever35 - This is two women in Los Angeles ostensibly talking about self-care, with an emphasis on skincare. In actual fact, they are diving into their own insecurities, triumphs and passions whilst living life in the 2020s. Enjoyable friendship banter is enlivened by the occasional moment when I think one of them is getting irritated by the other one. So relatable.

  3. Smartless - This one features Jason Bateman, Will Arnett and Sean Hayes and the conceit is that every week one of them brings on a celebrity friend that the other two don’t know about, and then they interview them. While sometimes I detect a hint of misogyny from these dudes and they can be a bit smug, their deep love for each other and some first class teasing keeps me coming back.

  4. How Did This Get Made - Jason Mantzoukas, Paul Scheer and June Diane Raphael are all actors, but not big names. If you Google them, you’ll definitely recognize their faces. Paul and June are married in real life. The three of them (often with a guest - not as good) watch bad movies and then get together for an hour long discussion of, well, How Did This Get Made. I started listening because they were quite funny about the terrible movies they watched, but over this past year, I’ve become a fan because underneath some intense teasing and lots of swearing, you can feel the deep affection that these three dopes feel for each other, and I love that.

  5. The Deep Dive - this is a new one and features June Diane Raphael from How Did This Get Made and one of her good friends, and fellow b-list actor, Jessica St.Clair. This ladies are loopy, out of touch West Coast nutbars who talk a lot about Tarot readings and energetic spirits, but they are also very funny and more importantly, they super love each and the friend-teasing is first class.

  6. The High Low - This is a cheat because in December 2020 they stopped making new episodes, but there is a deep archives, which I’ve been working my way through. This one features Pandora Sykes and Dolly Alderton, two British writers in their mid-thirties who discuss both the high and low culture of the week. They’re plugged in, funny and insightful, but again, I mostly love it because they love each other and your can hear the warmth in their voices.

Now that you know what I like, do you have any podcast reckys for me? Leave them in the comments below!

The National Carpet Museum might be my favourite

50 times architects made buildings that looked cool but were uncomfortable to live in or use

The National Carpet Museum In Baku, Azerbaijan

The National Carpet Museum, Baku Azerbaijan

Yes, please!

Kill the 5-day workweek

I’m a big believer that work expands to fill the hours. I am in a “busy” job at the moment, but it’s mostly so busy because my days are filled with as many as 10-12 meetings on different subjects. Often these meetings are not necessary. If I had the time to meet less and do more, I could, well, do more.

Miraculously—or predictably, if you ask proponents of the four-day workweek—the company seemed to be getting the same amount of work done in less time. It had scaled back on meetings and social events, and employees increased the pace of their day. Nicole Miller, who works in human resources at Buffer, also cited “the principle of work expanding to the time you give it”: When we have 40 hours of work a week, we find ways to work for 40 hours. Buffer might never go back to a five-day week.

I worked 4 days a week for a few years, and I completely agree with the assessment below. I scheduled all of my and my daughter’s appointments on the day off, as well as all my running around, which meant that I had more time for my actual job when I was in the office.

Barnes found that even though weekly working hours were cut by 20 percent, employees’ time spent on nonwork websites fell by 35 percent. It also helped that employees had more time outside of work to manage the rest of their lives, so nonwork responsibilities were less likely to intrude on the workday. “Because people have no time for home duties—trying to track down that plumber or sorting things out with the kids—all of that was eating into the day,” he told me. “So if I gave people more time outside of work to do those tasks, that would stop those things interfering in the business hours.”

Someone should write a novel about this

Powerball mystery: someone in this tiny town won 731 million. Now everyone wants a piece of it.

I find the repercussions and challenges of big lottery wins so fascinating. The big win is counter-intuitively often detrimental to people’s happiness. We are so messed up as humans.

Coming from a small town myself, I could imagine the dynamics of this.

Some people say they’ve noticed a new car or two at one house or another. Some people point to someone who’s spruced up the front of the house. Some people profess not to care, but they seem to be outnumbered by people who say they know for sure who won.

Twitter

Twitter avatar for @raekennedy_Rae Kennedy @raekennedy_
My kid has ZERO sense of urgency when getting ready to go in the morning and this is my villain origin story.

July 8th 2021

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I bet Godot was texting "sorry, on my way!" and the whole time he was lying on his bed in a wet towel scrolling through Instagram.

July 7th 2021

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Twitter avatar for @mhdksafamohamad safa @mhdksafa
What we learned in 2020? That oil is worthless in a society without consumption. That healthcare has to be public because heath is public. That 50% of jobs can be done from home while the other 50% deserve more than they’re being paid. That we live in a society, not an economy.

July 4th 2021

15,236 Retweets49,781 Likes
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Set myself up perfectly, once again, for the best bite of the sandwich. These next few seconds are gonna be so great.
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July 3rd 2021

2,980 Retweets53,545 Likes

The whole thread is so interesting:

Twitter avatar for @sim_kernSim Kern @sim_kern
If any of you are under the impression that our billionaires might succeed in "escaping" to space, while the world burns, let me put those fears to rest with what I know from being the spouse of a NASA flight controller. 🧵

July 3rd 2021

46,546 Retweets166,686 Likes
Twitter avatar for @MNateShyamalansoul nate @MNateShyamalan
me: [on fire] i shouldn’t have used all those plastic straws billionaires: [leaving on space yachts] you shouldn’t have used all those plastic straws

June 30th 2021

23,435 Retweets151,628 Likes
Twitter avatar for @SomersErinErin Somers @SomersErin
I wish I had the swagger of the Scottie dog from Monopoly. King shit

July 3rd 2021

40 Likes
Twitter avatar for @juliapike14Julia Pike @juliapike14
THIS IS NOT A DRILL I AM IN THE SAME MRI WAITING ROOM AS THE LOBSTERMAN WHO GOT SWALLOWED BY A WHALE! Someone asked what he saw inside the whale and he said “darkness... and death”

July 1st 2021

959 Retweets27,186 Likes
Twitter avatar for @YgreneYgrene @Ygrene
What if my dog figures out that I have bones inside me, oh man not good

July 1st 2021

52 Retweets301 Likes

TikTok

This old dog

Rape whistle

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hero dog

Love these girls

Australian dad joke

Quick response

Fully endorse this

This is why I like TikTok - watch the next two in a row

Then this

Then this

Also endorse this

yikes

The payoff on this one is intense

AMY TECTOR - THE HONEYBEE EMERALDS (MARCH 2022)


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Tim Webb
Jul 11, 2021Liked by Amy Tector

Funnily I started listening to the Friendship Onion because LotR, but stayed because of the bosom buddy interaction.

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